All relationships should be valued with honesty, humbleness, wellbeing, true compassion and non-judgmental.
Being non-judgmental is a big part of a true, honest and cherished relationship, whether the relationship is with friends, a spouse, parents, siblings or your children. Being judgmental can break a person’s morale and create a sense of insecurity within them.
Relationships should be based on a champion cheerleading system. Cheer a person when they deserve it without jealousy and negative thoughts. Be the champion to uplift them and give them a sense of self-appreciation.
Sometimes it’s important to be very clear upfront if the person is doing something outside of your own values and belief system. Our beliefs are personal to each person, which is why accepting someone else’s beliefs even if its different from yours is the first path to acceptance and compassion in yourself and others.
You can explain your thoughts process without judging or boasting to stand out as the better person. Try to be compassionate about a decision someone has chosen no matter the consequences.
Then be there to support them as they navigate their journey. You’ll be surprised what you’ll learn for yourself from that experience. Every moment is a true learning lesson.
Be open to receive!